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DIFFICULT CHILDREN

Author: Dr. Robert Cieri

relationships between parents and children have always been for me an object of interest, since the years of college, then to arrive at the training in school psychology, which was followed by years of experience at the Divisions of Pediatrics of San Donà di Piave and Pescara. However, the therapeutic approach that has allowed me to obtain the best results in terms of effectiveness and efficiency has proven to be even intervention in this field, the model of Brief Strategic Therapy Center.

The difficulties concerning the childhood and adolescence, which is the period of growth of our children, often shared by parents who are trying to find a solution, they can unknowingly become accomplices and remain embroiled in the situation. Unfortunately, a difficulty, if repeated over time, can become a real problem. Fortunately his parents in psychotherapy may become useful lever for change of their children, thanks to the techniques and strategies tailored to each individual problem. It is very important to avoid creating the idea of \u200b\u200billness at this age, in fact the perception of identity "healthy" in the children must be protected, as well as before resorting to psychiatric diagnoses and drugs, let us pause to reflect on the presence of communication problems , relationship management rules, inconsistency between the messages they receive from parents, who repeated over time may have produced the problem.

This is what occurred in the majority of families with whom I am in contact in daily clinical practice. Obviously things are often exacerbated by emotional stress that may accompany a difficult situation: distress, fear, sense of failure, guilt, fear for the future and so on.

Very often, critical situations can be managed and resolved by simply changing some attitudes, rules, actions and reactions. When you live in the "system-family," every element of the system itself can change the other elements because each is connected to the other and all are influenced by all. This becomes a resource when you "use" the parents make a conscious, useful and functional with the ultimate aim of helping to initiate a change that promotes the welfare of children. What is certain is that psychotherapy is understood in this way, he needs all the effort and cooperation of parents.